Monday, July 28, 2008

What is True Happiness?

True happiness is not the nonexistence of pain, you cannot have a day after day of transparent skies. Genuine happiness lays in construction a self that stands majestic and determined. Contentment doesn’t mean having a life free of charge from all complexity by that whatever difficulties arise, without being traumatized in the least you can summon up the unflinching courage and conviction to fight and overcome them.

Psychology tell us that to be happy one must

  • have sense of worth example wag mong sirain sarili mo meaning take good care of your self

  • be in power on one’s life also means don't rely on being sad kasi nakita mo yung isang tao maiinis kana at masisira na araw mo, bakit siya ba may control sa buhay mo?

  • have an optimistic point of view always look on the brighter side rather than the bad side of anything... example narin dito yung mga kasamahan mo, don't always criticize but rather see the good side or better yet help them improve themselves if you can (^_^)

  • be dedicated to a righteous intention be a good example kung kaya mo kung hindi then just stay calm and relax but never doing the bad things

  • significant employment and amusement work like you're working with amusement waaa kaya mo yun? I was happy to find the work I want and amuse with the working environment

  • uphold permanent and loving relationships for me keep only positive relationships (^_^) throw away negative

Ultimate happiness is determine by the degree to which we established a solid self. This self is actually true self of one’s life.

I remember my second degree cousin told me her name is Sister Gilda PeƱafiel,I memorize and understood it by heart here are the lines:

Isis Dearest,

Happiness is something created in our mind.
It is not something you searched and so seldom find.
It’s just waking up and beginning the day
By counting our blessings and kneeling to pray
It’s giving up wishing for things we have not
And making the best of whatever we’ve got
It’s knowing that life is determined for us,
And pursuing our tasks without fret, fume or fuss
For it’s by completing what God gives us to do
That we find real contentment and happiness too.

To share with you a beautiful thought that is already a part of me and which can be yours too. God Bless you. ~Sister Gilda, RVM (1998 Letter)

To everyone, happiness and contentment is the key to fountain of youth. Take it from me ~ Aice nice concepts (^_^)

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SurvivorDean said...


Continue writing about Happiness, it uplifts people's morale.

Happiness is a choice. If you choose to be happy, then you can be happy. In fact, you can have a healthy immune system if you are always happy.

Eating chocolate is one of the easiest things you can do to be happy. Just make sure to brush your teeth after eating chocolate, having a toothache and the cost of tooth filing or tooth removal will surely not make you happy. hehehe

Bottomline is, whether life sucks oftentimes and keeps you in a routine, try to be happy. Being happy is cool.

Everyone deserves to be happy even when the heart is completely empty. Why empty? That's another cheesy topic...

Jean said...

hmm,,, great post Aice!

True happiness is not attained through self-gratification, but through fidelity to a worthy purpose.
--Helen Keller--

If you want happiness, find yourself first..

Self-actualization is a method of finding who you are, who you want to be and preparing the way to happiness by acting what brings YOU the most meaning and satisfaction to your life over the long run.

Be happy always!

Princess Cinderella said...

in order to be happy you should be contented in your life but still strive for your dreams...have faith and will...always pray to God..hehehe...muah.....dewa odaijini...ja ne....

marydane said...

happiness is indeed inward...

it's not what you have that makes you happy, it's what you think about it...

Maikeru76 said...

As an acquaintance...has put it succinctly...

"No one or nothing can ever make you feel 'blue' without your consent..."

Happiness is having a life-condition that sees everything as a challenge and the challenge is making that effort everyday to choose to be happy no matter what

This is how I create having happiness as my basic life-tendency...NMRK

... said...

happiness is...shalalala be

ahmn. yes I agree that it's good to be happy and it's worth to be happy as well. Always be happy and wear a smile. Not because life is full of reasons to be happy rather smile because your smile is the reason for others to be happy. happy. oink oink

jigs said...

to those who knew me and to those who had met me may say that i'm a happy person even me myself could say so. i even write a blog which composes of happy thought a carefree article that i intend to make my readers happy.
but there are still questions in my heart that always haunt me. why is it that we always struggle and always looking for joy, looking forward to experience happiness. is there something in us which make us do things to achieve this. maybe most of us needs a little contentment to be happy. i have only one lesson learned how to b happy. you just lessen your expectations to every little things then chadaaaa. you will end up happy. although ganun talaga may mga sad and series of unfortunate events you will still find happiness.ay oi basta.
"Without happyness life has no meaning,without meaning we have no identity and without identity we cease to exist." from the movie the pursuit of happyness

Darlyn said...

there are two reasons why people unhappy..
- not getting what he/she want
- getting what he/she want

so happiness maybe opp site of that...

Aice Nice Concepts said...

Survivor Dean,
Thank you so much wow number one commentor (^_^)

thank you sa quotes mo galing naman yeah self-actualization nga (^_^)

Princess Cinderella,
exactly yan din ang follow ko be contented and follow your dreams (^_^)

yup tama ka maraming salamat sa comment

wow ads ha about your org naks! but you do have sense in your comment ... Thank you.

hmmm sino kaya etong "..." nagiisip pa ata sa name niya anyway, thanks din po shalalala its so nice to be happy (^_^)

wow MAN!!! you're so funny talaga (^_^) graveh kahit may problema tao basta mabasa comment mo mapapatawa talaga Man!!! ahihihih (^_^) pero may point ka ha infairness galing ng comment.

yup ganon nga pero sometimes we do get what we want but we want more (^_^)

ka bute said...

this one made me remember that movie of will smith.. in pursuit of happyness =)

James said...

Happiness + Contentment key to Fountain of youth ... wow .. ayus thanks ... nice ang topic ..

Hope dis will work ..
Happiness = Food = satisfaction =Contentment so by eating you can have the key to the Fountain of youth .. since contentment and Happiness co exist while eating .. di ba ?

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"Some say the fountain's waters are the first rains that fell over Dominaria."

Anonymous said...

I really enjoyed this post and the poem from your cousin! Thanks for your comment on my blog.

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