Kissing Dating Goodbye

Isis' insights were triggered by Joshua Harris he wrote a book called I Kissed Dating Goodbye which I never read...
He is controversial (^_^)

So I thought to write my insights... watch this video first :)



Well you can say that I followed that "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" for almost my entire life... (till recently this year)
and as I said ... never read the book... but somewhat instinctively followed...

God's Gift

How To Find Partner in Life

Some notes I have written from seminar on important points to consider in finding the partner in life (^_^) here they are:

• Spiritual Unity - believe the same thing, faith - God must be in the center of the two of you. (2 Corinthians 6:14-18)
• Same life purpose - both of you have same goal, one cannot be going to left while the other one will go to the right, both must be on the same directions to be able to function well.
• Both must be Emotionally Healthy,

How to let Go and Let God Take Control

Sweet words are easy to say,
Sweet things are easy to buy,
But sweet people are difficult to find.

Life ends when you stop dreaming,
Hope ends when you stop believing,
Love ends when you stop crying,
And friendship ends when you stop sharing.

To love without condition
To talk without intention
To give without reason
And to care without expectation.

As my Christians friends would say there is no coincidence with God. I finally meditate to completely let go of my special feelings with someone whom I still really care. Every time I remember to pray for him I would divert my prayers to "please God let me just completely forget everything and I do not want to feel anything special help me Lord to completely forget". And that message I received to one of my friends. It spoke to me on how I'm trying hard to Let Go of all the loving feelings.



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Calvary Chapel: My First Communion (9th Visit)

Last night, I finally experienced my first communion with Calvary Chapel. I knew there was a communion every First Wednesday of the month but I'm not sure if I was eligible since am considering myself "a 2months old baby" within their service.
The topic last night was:

Don't Judge

from the old testament 1 Samuel 16, I was feeling dizzy while listening (I have no dinner yet) and it was already around 20:00 anyway I did feel tired but still I'm not weak.

here are the verses of the teachings for last night 1 Samuel 16:1-23

1 And the LORD said unto Samuel, How long wilt thou mourn for Saul, seeing I have rejected him from reigning over Israel? fill thine horn with oil, and go, I will send thee to Jesse the Bethlehemite: for I have provided me a king among his sons.

2 And Samuel said, How can I go? if Saul hear it, he will kill me. And the LORD said, Take an heifer with thee, and say, I am come to sacrifice to the LORD.

3 And call Jesse to the sacrifice, and I will shew thee what thou shalt do: and thou shalt anoint unto me him whom I name unto thee.

4 And Samuel did that which the LORD spake, and came to Bethlehem. And the elders of the town trembled at his coming, and said, Comest thou peaceably?

5 And he said, Peaceably: I am come to sacrifice unto the LORD: sanctify yourselves, and come with me to the sacrifice. And he sanctified Jesse and his sons, and called them to the sacrifice.

6 And it came to pass, when they were come, that he looked on Eliab, and said, Surely the LORD's anointed is before him.

7 But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart.

8 Then Jesse called Abinadab, and made him pass before Samuel. And he said, Neither hath the LORD chosen this.

9 Then Jesse made Shammah to pass by. And he said, Neither hath the LORD chosen this.

10 Again, Jesse made seven of his sons to pass before Samuel. And Samuel said unto Jesse, The LORD hath not chosen these.

11 And Samuel said unto Jesse, Are here all thy children? And he said, There remaineth yet the youngest, and, behold, he keepeth the sheep. And Samuel said unto Jesse, Send and fetch him: for we will not sit down till he come hither.

12 And he sent, and brought him in. Now he was ruddy, and withal of a beautiful countenance, and goodly to look to. And the LORD said, Arise, anoint him: for this is he.

13 Then Samuel took the horn of oil, and anointed him in the midst of his brethren: and the Spirit of the LORD came upon David from that day forward. So Samuel rose up, and went to Ramah.

14 But the Spirit of the LORD departed from Saul, and an evil spirit from the LORD troubled him.

15 And Saul's servants said unto him, Behold now, an evil spirit from God troubleth thee.

16 Let our lord now command thy servants, which are before thee, to seek out a man, who is a cunning player on an harp: and it shall come to pass, when the evil spirit from God is upon thee, that he shall play with his hand, and thou shalt be well.

17 And Saul said unto his servants, Provide me now a man that can play well, and bring him to me.

18 Then answered one of the servants, and said, Behold, I have seen a son of Jesse the Bethlehemite, that is cunning in playing, and a mighty valiant man, and a man of war, and prudent in matters, and a comely person, and the LORD is with him.

19 Wherefore Saul sent messengers unto Jesse, and said, Send me David thy son, which is with the sheep.

20 And Jesse took an ass laden with bread, and a bottle of wine, and a kid, and sent them by David his son unto Saul.

21 And David came to Saul, and stood before him: and he loved him greatly; and he became his armourbearer.

22 And Saul sent to Jesse, saying, Let David, I pray thee, stand before me; for he hath found favour in my sight.

23 And it came to pass, when the evil spirit from God was upon Saul, that David took an harp, and played with his hand: so Saul was refreshed, and was well, and the evil spirit departed from him.

Pastor Ken Pascua also taught us not to judge even of what the person cover or actions.
If I can get the audio of his teaching I will post it here but so far these are all I can write as I'm still feeling dizzy and I need to get to work (^_^)

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So Nice Push Lost in Emotions

Now after my birthday I have no post (Y_Y) hmmm I can't express it in words so after searching for the right songs to express it, I finally found some...

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Last night when I opened the TV there was a song...
"pag-dating ng panahon, baka ikaw rin at ako, baka tibok ng puso mo'y maging tibok ng puso ko, sana nga'y mangyari yun, kahit di palang ngayon, sana'y mahalin mo rin pagdating ng panahon..."
timing pa talaga si Aiza ang kumanta wahahah (^_^) nakakatuwa
hayzzz...

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Happy Birthday Isis

Today is my birthday weeeiii!!!
I had so much fun even though for a budgeted money, I'm happy that my friends understand that fact (^_^)

We had lunch together, for me to say "Thank you" for helping me in many ways you just didn't know and that I truly appreciate your friendship.
medyo budget lang gyud noh pero sige lang next time mag ipon na ta datong (^_^)
I spent so much fun with Mary Dane, Henry, Ronald, Dante, James, Ariel, Jayson, Eric, Jigs, Jacob, and Raphael (^_^) (including me we are all 12 parang 12 disciples wahahah) and of course I was surprise with this picture from... hmmm


When I came back at the office I quickly fix myself (i.e. brush my teeth, etc...) then I was surprise on my YM I have a message from a night shift (^_^) wag ko nalang daw mention sino siya kasi baka pahinawayan do you know what that means pahinawayan?
Here is what he sent to me "attached" in here with all the hearts and my name (^_^) I wanted to post this on my Aice Nice Concepts but I guess since the picture is using my "Isis" name and also last year I have a birthday post in there so dito na muna

Hey! Thank you so much this was a very good surprise, knowing he made that jpeg by himself (sweet ha maka-touch) I thought it is really true if you don't expect someone will give something then there meron kang matatangap.
Mababaw lang talaga kaligayahan ko I may look like "social" because of my skin color and the way I move but deep inside I'm just the "simple" me nothing more but never the less (^_^) some may gave me the impression of soplada, mataray hindi pala pansin.. ala eh hindi niyo lang alam may program tumatakbo sa utak ko in short I'm just thinking of something else, and not that I intentionally didn't mind but sometimes if not often times hindi ko lang talaga napansin nan dyan ka pala? sorry

hmmm... Thank so much guys for the time spent on that lunch you made me happy and to the person who gave me this picture (^_^) maraming salamat talaga you're indeed sweet kaya pala may langgam sa desk ko kanina pag-dating ko sa office ano ulit meaning ng pahinawayan? pwede paki explain po...
officemates help your comment are indeed needed ano un meaning noon?(^_^)
salamat

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What is True Happiness?

True happiness is not the nonexistence of pain, you cannot have a day after day of transparent skies. Genuine happiness lays in construction a self that stands majestic and determined. Contentment doesn’t mean having a life free of charge from all complexity by that whatever difficulties arise, without being traumatized in the least you can summon up the unflinching courage and conviction to fight and overcome them.

Psychology tell us that to be happy one must

• have sense of worth example wag mong sirain sarili mo meaning take good care of your self


• be in power on one’s life also means don't rely on being sad kasi nakita mo yung isang tao maiinis kana at masisira na araw mo, bakit siya ba may control sa buhay mo?


• have an optimistic point of view always look on the brighter side rather than the bad side of anything... example narin dito yung mga kasamahan mo, don't always criticize but rather see the good side or better yet help them improve themselves if you can (^_^)


• be dedicated to a righteous intention be a good example kung kaya mo kung hindi then just stay calm and relax but never doing the bad things


• significant employment and amusement work like you're working with amusement waaa kaya mo yun? I was happy to find the work I want and amuse with the working environment


• uphold permanent and loving relationships for me keep only positive relationships (^_^) throw away negative

Ultimate happiness is determine by the degree to which we established a solid self. This self is actually true self of one’s life.

I remember my second degree cousin told me her name is Sister Gilda Peñafiel,I memorize and understood it by heart here are the lines:

Isis Dearest,

Happiness is something created in our mind.
It is not something you searched and so seldom find.
It’s just waking up and beginning the day
By counting our blessings and kneeling to pray
It’s giving up wishing for things we have not
And making the best of whatever we’ve got
It’s knowing that life is determined for us,
And pursuing our tasks without fret, fume or fuss
For it’s by completing what God gives us to do
That we find real contentment and happiness too.


To share with you a beautiful thought that is already a part of me and which can be yours too. God Bless you. ~Sister Gilda, RVM (1998 Letter)

To everyone, happiness and contentment is the key to fountain of youth. Take it from me ~ Aice nice concepts (^_^)

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Spending time with My Crush

Don’t know why, all of the sudden, I wished to spend time with my Crush.

Actually, honestly, precisely, seriously …
what you see is what you get! Ahihih!

ok now…

Actually: I have 9 guys that I admire but only one of them is the most.

Honestly, two are in Luzon now but the other one reside here in Mindanao (we met tru blogging) I like the way he thinks, talks, and how he handles his career and life style. He is Good in web developing. And text me every now and then.
While the other one is from Luzon; we knew each other in one organization hindi ko nalang mention what org kasi parang obvious na kung sino eh (^_^) if you were reading my ice 9 web blogs from the beginning you won’t have hard time knowing who he is. He still text me every now and then.

Precisely, two are in Visayas: hmmm the other one I met thru mahiya ako ma buking! … pano kaya hmmm learning? Is a part of … eh…tion? Basta nasa Visayas siya ngayon (^_^)
the other one thru hmmm (madali kasi ma buking eh) lalo na sa mga close friends ko (^_~)
both of them have leadership qualities, one is excellent in computer while the other is not so good in computers but both of them has something that I really admire the most: their attitude, goal, the way he thinks of philosophy and determination in life.
the other one has serious lifestyle while the other one has very occupied lifestyle.

Seriously, five are here in Mindanao:
Ahihih! Lima talaga ano?
Well what can I say, I met so many good nice guys in my circle of friends but most of them are taken (Y_Y)
meaning may girl friend na pero single parin! Kung baga admiration nalang nothing more kapag taken na!
Four of them I met at my work place, (or five bah ^_^)
The other one is accidentally last year 2007 election time; while I was processing my papers after my graduation at the Sanguniang Panglungsod and I was looking for a job in government. Tapos may media pa noon it was ABS-CBN they were monitoring who won in the election. Ewan bakit ako napadaan doon sabi kasi doon pumunta eh, tapos he approached me asking am I looking for something? I said with a smile “yeah a job!”, he laugh and said “ok pass your resume to me I will help you find a job, you want in the government?” I replied “yes sir” he asked for CS exams, license etc… napakita ko TESDA kasi wala pa ako nag CS exam noon eh…

Anyway, I prayed to spend time with my crush.

Most of them, I have already spend time with… and aware now it will be just an admiration and nothing more “ kasi nga may girl friend eh Y_Y grrr good guys are always taken ”.

Only 5 left; (two in Mindanao, two in Visayas, one in Luzon) that I haven’t spend time with… I do not know if they are still single, available or NOT in a complicated relationship.

What a surprise my wish was granted I did spend time with my crush.
The Two guys who are in Mindanao (^_^)
I think if you really ask with all of your heart, your wish will be granted!

But unfortunately I found out thru spending time with them….
First was the other one, was IN a complicated relationship,
while the other one had a wife and kids (T_T) waaa!!!
both of them are taken (again! Wa!)

I will go details in the other one which has more impact because hmmm ewan basta!
He asked me out kasi before, the one I met accidentally, but I said I was busy, since I was really busy (being at night shift and I was the project manager at that time, I really had no time for going out except meeting with admin),
he calls at our house my mother will always answer and said I’m fast asleep kasi nga night shift. Sinasabi lang sa akin ni mama kapag nagising ako which is 6pm! “____ called sino yun?” so I will explain “oh I met him at ____....” wala lang sa akin that time because I know although he was on my crush list it was just an acquaintance call, may be involving me to a government activities which I had no time. He is one of the politician here in our City. There was one time he text me hiring to be his computer secretary, I was surprise didn’t he remember I told him I’m on night shift or maybe he just forgot kasi busy , so I replied “I'm already employed as web developer…”

I received a text from him from time to time but not regularly, I replied some of his text but not all kasi ayoko ma involve sa mga government activities

Then he asked around this month of July, “if we can see each other”, hmmm I finally gave him a chance since he is still on my crush list (^_^) and beside I’m not busy, the time was right, day shift after 5:00pm ok mag-kita.

We went to early dinner around 6pm, I was prepared for KKB ^_^,

Moving on and on , to cut my story short;
This time I guess it will be just friendship he is not on my crush list anymore Waaa! I don’t want to break one of the Ten Commandments “Thou shall not commit adultery”

What happen? Click niyo yung early Dinner date

There are still some guys left I haven’t spend time with personally that are on my crush list . Still wondering what it would be like? To really fall in love (having “personal” relationship)
Hoping one of them will be meant for me. My wishes… (dreams not yet real) .

I learned to open my eyes to all aspects, not only those on my Crush List.
It’s really annoying to be “drop dead” from excitement!

Diba tell me what you’re thinking … have you ever felt that way?





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